My children and me: midlife evaluations of grown children and of self

Psychol Aging. 1994 Jun;9(2):195-205. doi: 10.1037//0882-7974.9.2.195.

Abstract

Midlife parents (N = 215, M age = 53.7 years) were interviewed about how their adult children (M age = 27.6 years) had "turned out". These assessments were then related to parents' views of themselves. Perceived accomplishments and adjustment of children were expected to be positively linked with parents' well-being (e.g., self-acceptance, environmental mastery, purpose in life), and social comparisons were hypothesized to contribute to the link between parents' assessments of children and their own well-being. Multiple regression analyses revealed that children's perceived adjustment significantly predicted 6 of 7 well-being outcomes for mothers and fathers. Children's attainment was less strongly linked with parental outcomes. Personal comparisons were significant negative predictors--parents who saw their children as better adjusted than themselves had lower well-being.

Publication types

  • Research Support, Non-U.S. Gov't

MeSH terms

  • Achievement
  • Adaptation, Psychological
  • Affect
  • Educational Status
  • Female
  • Goals
  • Humans
  • Life Change Events
  • Male
  • Middle Aged
  • Observer Variation
  • Parents*
  • Perception
  • Personal Satisfaction
  • Regression Analysis
  • Self Concept*
  • Self-Assessment*